Before
Here’s original post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ob0wdk/aita_for_not_letting_my_best_friend_have_her/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
Some stuff has happened recently and many of you have wanted an update on this. Appreciate the reassurance and understanding my decision when seems that many in this situation didn’t. I remained firm in my decision about not letting them use my property for their wedding. Even if they changed their mind about inviting us which honestly I don’t care about anymore.
Rick’s family (thanks to him) got a hold of my cell so that was more people I had to deal with. I put my foot down with Rick a few days ago and told him directly that I will go to the police and press charges for harassment (I have all the texts and calls documented). Also had a very long talk with Carla about everything going on. She apologized for it all. And she knows it’s her own fault.
Well she decided to be the one to call things off in the end. Some of my friends still seem to think it’s my fault and I’m taking some distance from them for a while. And also from Carla after getting some confirmation on a few things that I needed to know. Whole thing is a mess. I’m only glad in the end that I didn’t give in to their demands and the constant bugging has stopped.. It still was a huge headache over the last few days and not the kind of drama I want back in my life. Thank you to everyone who made me feel supported in this. It helped a lot not feeling like the only other person (aside from my wife), who thought their demand was insane and inappropriate.
After
This is the original article.
A few things have happened recently and most of you want to update them. Appreciate the motivation when many understand my decision not to do so. I should not allow my property to be used for weddings. Even if they change their mind about their invitation, I will not be honest.
Rick's family (thanks to him) is getting more and more treated because we are locked in my cell. A few days ago I kicked Rick in the leg. I immediately went to the police and interrupted (I recorded all my text messages and calls). He talked at length about Carla. He apologized for all this. He knew it was his fault
I finally decided to call her. Some of my friends thought it was my fault and I was away from them for a while and confirmed some things from Carla that I needed to know. I'm glad the whole mess did not meet their needs in the end. I still have a headache for the past few days. Not the drama I want in my life. Thanks to everyone who helped me with this. Their request helped me not to feel like I was the only one (except my wife) who thought I was crazy.